Best Vibrator For Older Women

As the body changes with age, you may need some extra help to reach the same level of pleasure as you used to.

Published Mar 23 2021 5 min read

As you get older, it is more important than ever to look after yourself sexually - after all sex will only get better as you age. Solo play can give your sex life a new lease of life and improve sexual health, emotional well-being, and overall health. Keep your sex life in good shape with the best vibrator for older women.  

As the body changes with age, you may need some extra help to reach the same level of pleasure as you used to. Whether this is through carefully selected sex positions for seniors or introducing a sex toy into the bedroom. You may have difficulty using traditional modes of masturbation, especially if suffering from arthritis your wrists may tire before you reach a climactic ending. Sex toys and vibrators aren’t about comically large dildos anymore - they are sleekly designed, simple to use and wouldn’t look out of place on your mantlepiece. The best vibrators for older women can help speed up arousal, make you feel sexy and deliver an intensely powerful orgasm, time and time again. Not to mention vibration technology massagers are powerful blood circulation stimulants and can improve your sex life after menopause! Improved blood flow will keep your nerve endings receptive and your vagina in tip-top condition.

What to keep in mind when picking the best vibrator for older women

  • Arousal can take longer

Meaning you may need a vibrator with an A* battery life. A rechargeable vibrator whose life from charge to charge is far longer than the time you will need is a good choice - and will stop you from having to replace the batteries constantly. 

  • You might need extra sensations

As you age, you may find you need extra sensations to push you over to the climatic glory. This means investing in a good quality vibrator that has multiple intensity levels so you can choose both powerful vibrations and lighter vibrations depending on your mood. 

  • The  weight of your vibrator

The vibrator should be lightweight enough to manoeuvre it around your body - without becoming fatigued. A bullet vibrator can be good for this as they pack a lot of pleasure in a compact exterior. Making them perfect for targeting vibrations exactly where you want them.

  • Ease of use 

Can the controls be easily identified without having to reach for your glasses? This could mean using a vibrator with larger buttons or one with a remote control that you can keep close. If you are tech-savvy - you could think about trying a Bluetooth vibrator, which can easily be connected to your smartphone. The enlarged app screen can help you easily turn your vibrator up, down or set it up with a whole host of vibration patterns uniquely for you.

  • Vaginal elasticity 

As you go through menopause your vaginal elasticity decreases, making it more difficult for things that would once easily be inserted to fit with ease. It is important to use a vibrator of an appropriate size for your body - it is worth noting that a vibrator with a narrower end may be best to navigate vaginal penetration if things are a little tender. 

Best Vibrator For Older Women Lube
  • Vaginal dryness

Vaginal dryness is another drawback that comes with age, meaning your natural lubrication decreases considerably, so lube up and slide in. It can be difficult to comprehend that lubrication is no reflection of your desire. But rather down to hormonal changes, so lube really is your best friend whether you’re using your fingers or a sex toy. It is recommended to use a water-based lubricant with a sex toy, as this will not diminish the longevity of your sex toy and will provide some awesome sensations.

  • Arthritis 

Constant vibration through the entirety of a vibrator or sex toy can tire arthritic hands and wrists. Instead invest in a vibrator where you can comfortably hold the end, or rest the vibrator against something such as a pillow so you don’t have to hold it. 

  • Extra time

Arousal and gradual build-up is an important part of sex, but even more so as women get older. set aside the right amount of private time to allow you to feel sensual and sexual. Think sexy music, dimmed lights, whatever you need. 

  • Where will you enjoy your solo play?

If you enjoy spending time in the bathtub or shower, you might want to invest in a waterproof vibrator that can accompany you in your self-care time. ensure you are checking carefully if the vibrator is safe for bath-tub or shower play. 

If you are on the go and in need of a travel companion then a bullet vibrator that can fit seamlessly into your bag is just the thing you need. 

The Best Vibrator For Older Women

Best Vibrator For Older Women Poco

Poco

A vibrator that ticks every box on this list is Poco - the bendable G-spot bullet vibrator. Made from body-safe silicone this durable vibrator feels soft to the touch. As simple as point and go, Poco delivers targeted vibrations exactly how and where you want them as you shape Poco for your own personal desires. 

If you are tech-savvy then explore the endless options of vibration patterns and settings by connecting your Poco to the smart-app. You can choose whether to play with your vibrator with all the bells and whistles or just to keep it simple! 

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Best Vibrator For Older Women Massage Wand

Magic Wand

If your nerve endings believe more is more than a Magic Wand will certainly rock your world. A cult-classic the Magic Wand delivers powerful vibrations, and can be used as a neck massager too! The intensities go up pretty high on this, so if age has desensitized your clitoris then this is a great sex toy to have you feeling all kinds of way. 

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Best Vibrator For Older Women Crescendo

Crescendo

Crescendo's slim design makes this vibrator perfect for women going through menopause - a time where you are likely to experience some tightening of the vagina. Crescendo can be bent to navigate your body, hitting the best spots for pleasure and navigating away from painful areas. Not to forget, vibration technology can help ease any pain and discomfort that older women may experience. 

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Best Vibrator For Older Women Suction Sex Toy

Womanizer

A new style of clitoral stimulator has come to the market - using air technology this toy creates a sucking sensation. These toys can be a little bit of a learning curve to get used to but do deliver powerful results. With focused sensations on the clitoris - these sex toys can be great for older women who have less sensitive nerve endings! 

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