The 14 Best Gay Sex Positions

Whether you're into acrobatic sex positions or looking to explore in the bedroom, these top gay sex positions for MLM relationships are worth trying out.

Published Dec 22 2023 11 min read

Sexual pleasure and intimacy are essential components of any relationship, and this is no exception for men who have sex with men (MSM). Experimenting with different sex positions can enhance your sexual experiences and bring you closer to your partner, and these top gay sex positions should definitely be on your radar.

5 best sex positions for gay men

Get ready to explore the top 5 sex positions for gay men. Each position brings unique benefits and sensations, helping to foster connections and enhance pleasure. Let's dive in and have some fun, shall we?

1. Missionary sex position

The missionary position is a classic and intimate sex position that works well for everyone, including gay men. This position allows for deep penetration and eye-to-eye contact, creating a sense of closeness and emotional connection.

How to do it:

  • One partner lies on their back with legs spread apart.
  • The other partner positions themselves between their legs on bent knees.
  • The penetrating partner inserts their penis or a sex toy into the receiving partner's anus and thrusts.

2. Doggy-style sex position

Doggy style is a popular and versatile sex position that allows for deep penetration and prostate stimulation. This position can be performed standing, kneeling, or lying down, making it adaptable to various environments and personal preferences.

How to do it:

  • The receiving partner gets on all fours, with their knees hip-width apart and hands shoulder-width apart.
  • The penetrating partner kneels or stands behind them, aligning their penis or sex toy with the receiving partner's anus.
  • The penetrating partner enters the receiving partner from behind, holding onto their hips for support and control.

3. Cowboy (or Cowgirl) sex position

Cowboy, also known as the Cowgirl position, is a fantastic sex position for gay men as it allows the receiving partner to control the depth and speed of penetration. This position also allows for great eye contact and easy access to the receiving partner's penis for additional stimulation.

How to do it:

  • The penetrating partner sits or lies down with their legs extended or slightly bent.
  • The receiving partner straddles the penetrating partner's hips, facing them.
  • The receiving partner slowly lowers themselves onto the penetrating partner's penis or sex toy, using their hands for support and balance.

4. Spooning sex position

Spooning is a comfortable and intimate sex position that allows for gentle, slow lovemaking. This position is perfect for those who enjoy cuddling and want to maintain a sense of closeness during sex.

How to do it:

  • Both partners lie on their sides, with the receiving partner in front of the penetrating partner (little spoon).
  • The receiving partner bends their knees slightly and opens their legs to allow the penetrating partner to enter from behind.
  • The penetrating partner wraps their arm around the receiving partner's chest or waist, providing additional support and intimacy.

5. Legs on shoulders sex position

This position, sometimes referred to as the "modified missionary" position, allows for deep penetration and P-spot or prostate stimulation. The angle of this position also enables the penetrating partner to hit the receiving partner's sweet spots with ease.

How to do it:

  • The receiving partner lies on their back with their legs spread wide and raised in the air.
  • The penetrating partner kneels between the receiving partner's legs and places their partner's ankles or calves on their shoulders.
  • The penetrating partner enters the receiving partner, using their hands for support and balance.

Other gay sex poses to try

Explore and experiment with exciting gay sex positions for variety and excitement in your intimate moments. Whether you seek sweetness and intimacy or wild passion, these diverse positions deepen connection, explore sensuality, and broaden your sexual repertoire. Some are beginner-friendly, while others require more technique. Choose what you and your partner are comfortable with.

Lotus sex position

The Lotus sex position is all about fostering intimacy and emotional connection. Deep eye contact, kissing, and slow, controlled movements make it perfect for those looking for a passionate experience. It's all about enhancing that emotional bond during the sexual encounter.

How to do it:

  • The receiving partner sits on the penetrating partner's lap, with the penetrating partner sitting cross-legged.
  • Both partners face each other, making eye contact and creating the perfect opportunity for passionate kisses.
  • The receiving partner wraps their legs around the penetrating partner to maintain balance and enhance the experience.
  • The penetrating partner enters the receiving partner, using their hands to guide and control the rhythm. The pace and depth can be adjusted to create a personalized and pleasurable encounter.

69 sex position

The 69 position is a super enjoyable sexual position where partners engage in simultaneous oral sex. It's all about giving and receiving, creating intimacy and enhancing sensory stimulation. While it does require some coordination, the 69 position adds excitement to any sexual repertoire, combining pleasure and intimacy.

How to do it:

  • Both partners position themselves so that each partner's head is near the other's pelvis, all set for some oral-genital action.
  • You can do this with both partners lying side by side, or one partner can be on top if that's more comfortable.
  • The partner on top can use their hands for support and balance, while the bottom partner can use their hands to add more sensation.

If the 69 position feels a bit too tricky or uncomfortable, there's another option: taking turns giving each other oral pleasure. This way, both partners can enjoy the moment and enhance the overall experience.

To enhance the 69 position, consider using Tenuto 2. This male vibrator can be worn to heighten arousal for the receiving partner, with powerful vibrations traveling up the penis and the perineum while the other partner engages in oral sex. This allows for diverse sensations and opens up new exploration possibilities. Tenuto Mini, a smaller yet powerful version without the perineum motor, can also be used.

Sex positions for gay men-Tenuto 2 position 4: Fellatioship of the rings

Tenuto 2 position 4: Fellatioship of the rings

Alternatively, take this experience up a notch by using Crescendo 2. As you wrap your lips around the tip, gently position Crescendo 2 against the underside of the penis, and even the perineum should you desire. The unique vibrations from 6 end-to-end motors will excite the nerve endings in both the penis and the mouth, adding an extra buzz to your oral play.

Gay sex poses-Crescendo 2 position 23: Vibe and blow

Crescendo 2 position 23: Vibe and blow

Lap Dance sex position

The Lap Dance position is a seductive and sexy position that incorporates the sensuous energy of erotic movement. It provides a visually exciting experience, allowing the receiver to incorporate dance for heightened arousal if desired.

How to do it:

  • The top sits back, resting on a chair, bed, or any stable surface, with legs slightly spread.
  • The bottom positions himself over the top's lap and dances or grinds against their partner, or just sits on their partner’s penis.
  • To control the depth and rhythm of penetration, the bottom can place his hands on the top's legs.
  • The bottom can also feel free to stimulate his penis for a mind-blowing orgasm.

To make the lap dance sex position more exciting, position yourself on your partner's penis and add Tenuto 2 to your own for an exhilarating experience. Take off with this hands-free position that will stimulate your perineum, testicles, and the underside of your partner's penis as you move up and down until you both reach climax together.

Gay male sex positions-Tenuto 2 position 6: Lift-off

Tenuto 2 position 6: Lift-off!

Bodyguard sex position

The Bodyguard position, also known as the standing sex position, is a popular choice for gay sex. It's loved for its versatility and adjustable angles, perfect for spontaneous encounters in different locations, from bathrooms to the great outdoors.

How to do it:

  • The person doing the penetrating stands behind the receiver, sometimes leaning against a wall for support.
  • The receiver slightly arches their back to make penetration easier.
  • The person doing the penetrating enters from behind, and both partners can control the rhythm and depth of the thrusts.
  • To go deeper, the receiver can lift one leg in this position, wrapping it around their partner.

For enhanced sensation in the bodyguard sex position, you might want to try wearing Tenuto 2. As your partner enters you from behind, they can reach around and give your vibrating shaft some attention. Gently back onto their penis and let the vibrations ripple through your perineum.

MLM sex positions-Tenuto 2 position 7: Reverberated reach

Tenuto 2 position 7: Reverberated reach

Cliff Diver sex position

The Cliff Diver is such an exhilarating position where tops can dive into their partner with unmatched intensity. It calls for substantial strength from both partners and isn't recommended for those lacking confidence in their physical abilities. While it can bring incredible pleasure, practicing it with care is essential to avoid any discomfort or injury to the bottom.

How to do it:

  • The bottom starts on all fours, ready for some action from the top.
  • The top enters the bottom from behind, in a doggy-style position.
  • Gradually, the top stands up, lifting the bottom by the thighs or waist.
  • The bottom wraps their legs around the top's waist, basically holding a midair plank.
  • The top takes charge of the thrusting, keeping the bottom's comfort and pleasure in mind.
  • Because things can get intense and there's a chance for skin friction, elbow pads or something soft to rest forearms on are suggested for the bottom.

Pirate's Bounty sex position

The Pirate's Bounty is a fantastic position for lovemaking. It provides deep penetration and stimulation of the P-spot or prostate, hitting all the right spots for the receiving partner.

How to do it:

  • The receiving partner lies on their back, with one leg flat on the ground and the other lifted up high.
  • The penetrating partner kneels down, facing the receiving partner, and puts the lifted leg on their shoulder.
  • The penetrating partner enters the receiving partner, using their hands for support and balance.
  • If they're flexible enough, the penetrating partner can push the lifted leg toward the receiving partner's head for even deeper penetration.

Suspended Congress sex position

Suspended congress, a physically demanding position, offers an exciting experience for adventurous gay couples. It boosts intimacy and serves as a cardio exercise, allowing for deep penetration and delightful prostate stimulation. The alignment in this position effortlessly hits all the right spots for ultimate pleasure.

How to do it:

  • The top stands while the bottom wraps their arms around their neck for support.
  • The top lifts the bottom, holding onto the bottom's thighs to support the alignment of their hips with their pelvis.
  • The top enters the bottom from this position.
  • The bottom's back can be placed against a wall for added stability.
  • For the more athletic couples, they can try free-standing suspended congress for a full-body workout.

Arch sex position

The Arch is a thrilling option for gay couples looking to spice things up. It provides intense pleasure through deep penetration and P-spot or prostate stimulation. While it's not recommended for beginners because of the flexibility involved, both tops and bottoms can experience incredibly satisfying sensations in this position.

How to do it:

  • The bottom lies face up, lifting his hips, like in a bridge position, while maintaining his feet, back, and neck keep in contact with the floor.
  • The top kneels, facing the bottom, and positions his pelvis under the raised hips of the bottom.
  • The top enters the bottom from this position.
  • Given the high flexibility requirement for the bottom, it is essential to ensure comfort and safety.
  • As always, open communication about comfort and consent remains crucial throughout.

Bumper Cars sex position

Bumper cars is a pretty advanced sex position that needs flexibility and coordination from both partners. Remember that the top might have a bit less visibility and control compared to the good old doggy style, so some practice is needed to get the coordination right. Nevertheless, this position adds spicy variety to the couple's intimate routine.

How to do it:

  • Both partners get on all fours, facing away from each other, with the top above and the bottom below.
  • Then, the top goes in from this unique angle.
  • It's important to communicate openly in this position to coordinate movements and ensure both are comfortable.
  • The bottom can adjust their body angle to help the top find the right spot.

Spice up your MLM sex positions

Integrating vibrators into gay sex intensifies pleasure and introduces delightful sensations. These products offer customizable stimulation options for more personalized pleasure experiences. They seamlessly complement various anal sex positions, revolutionizing pleasure.

When it comes to anal sex, lubrication is key for added comfort and pleasure. We suggest using a water-based lube like Pjur Aqua for safe and smooth play. Safety always comes first with anal sex, so consider using a condom. For expanding sexual horizons, we recommend the MysteryVibe Playbook. This guide showcases diverse positions and techniques expertly designed to incorporate vibrators into intimate moments—an invaluable resource for couples exploring their sex life.

Takeaway

Exploring new gay sex positions can be an exciting and rewarding way to enhance your gay or MLM relationship. Remember to communicate openly with your partner about your desires, boundaries, and comfort levels to ensure a pleasurable and safe experience for both of you. Don't be afraid to experiment and have fun. After all, the key to a satisfying sex life is being open-minded and attentive to your partner's needs.

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