Sexual pleasure and intimacy are essential components of any relationship, and this is no exception for gay men and men who have sex with men (MSM). Experimenting with different sex positions can enhance your sexual experiences and bring you closer to your partner.
That said, whether you're a beginner or a seasoned pro, these top sex positions for gay men and MLM relationships are worth trying out:
1. Missionary
The missionary position is a classic and intimate sex position that works well for everyone, including gay couples. This position allows for deep penetration and eye-to-eye contact, creating a sense of closeness and emotional connection.
How to do it:
- One partner lies on their back with legs spread apart.
- The other partner positions themselves between their legs, with their knees bent and feet flat on the bed.
- The penetrating partner inserts their penis or a sex toy into the receiving partner's anus and thrusts gently.
2. Doggy style
Doggy style is a popular and versatile sex position that allows for deep penetration and prostate stimulation. This position can be performed standing, kneeling, or lying down, making it adaptable to various environments and personal preferences.
How to do it:
- The receiving partner gets on all fours, with their knees hip-width apart and hands shoulder-width apart.
- The penetrating partner kneels or stands behind them, aligning their penis or sex toy with the receiving partner's anus.
- The penetrating partner enters the receiving partner from behind, holding onto their hips for support and control.
3. Cowboy (or Cowgirl)
Cowboy, also known as the Cowgirl position when performed by women, is a fantastic sex position for gay men and MLM relationships as it allows the receiving partner to control the depth and speed of penetration. This position also allows for great eye contact and easy access to the receiving partner's penis for additional stimulation.
How to do it:
- The penetrating partner sits or lies down with their legs extended or slightly bent.
- The receiving partner straddles the penetrating partner's hips, facing them.
- The receiving partner slowly lowers themselves onto the penetrating partner's penis or sex toy, using their hands for support and balance.
4. Spooning
Spooning is a comfortable and intimate sex position that allows for gentle, slow lovemaking. This position is perfect for those who enjoy cuddling and want to maintain a sense of closeness during sex.
How to do it:
- Both partners lie on their sides, with the receiving partner in front of the penetrating partner.
- The receiving partner bends their knees slightly and opens their legs to allow the penetrating partner to enter from behind.
- The penetrating partner wraps their arm around the receiving partner's chest or waist, providing additional support and intimacy.
5. Legs on shoulders
This position, sometimes referred to as the "modified missionary" position, allows for deep penetration and P-spot or prostate stimulation. The angle of this position also enables the penetrating partner to hit the receiving partner's sweet spots with ease.
How to do it:
- The receiving partner lies on their back with their legs spread wide and raised in the air.
- The penetrating partner kneels between the receiving partner's legs and places their partner's ankles or calves on their shoulders.
- The penetrating partner enters the receiving partner, using their hands for support and balance.
Conclusion
Exploring new sex positions can be an exciting and rewarding way to enhance your gay or MLM relationship. Remember to communicate openly with your partner about your desires, boundaries, and comfort levels to ensure a pleasurable and safe experience for both of you. Don't be afraid to experiment and have fun. After all, the key to a satisfying sex life is being open-minded and attentive to your partner's needs.
