6 Challenging Sex Positions To Spice Up Your Bedroom Play

We're going to delve into the realm of six challenging sex positions that can undoubtedly inject some new energy into your bedroom play. 

Published Jul 13 2023 3 min read

If you want to add a dash of excitement and variation to your intimate encounters, you're in the right spot. Here, we're going to delve into the realm of six challenging sex positions that can undoubtedly inject some new energy into your bedroom play.  

These positions aren't for the faint-hearted, but for those willing to push their boundaries, the rewards can be extraordinary. So, let's not waste any more time and dive right in! 

1. The wheelbarrow

The Wheelbarrow is a challenging position that requires strength, stamina, and balance. This isn't a position for beginners, but it's worth a try for those with a sense of adventure and a decent fitness level.  

The receiving partner stands on their hands, while the giving partner holds their legs or hips. This position allows for deep penetration and a unique angle of entry. It's a fun, playful way to spice things up.  

2. The pretzel

This position, the pretzel, is a more advanced take on the classic spooning position. The receiving partner lies on their side, lifting their top leg as the giving partner kneels, straddling their bottom leg and cradling their lifted leg on their hip.  

This position allows for intense, deep penetration and can be particularly satisfying for both partners. While it may require some flexibility and balance, it can be a game-changer once you get the hang of it. 

3. The stand and deliver 

This is another position that requires strength and balance. The giving partner stands and holds the receiving partners thighs or hips while the receiving partner leans against a wall and wraps their legs around their partner’s waist.  

This can be done against a wall for added support or in the middle of the room for an added challenge. This position allows for deep penetration and the opportunity for the receiving partner to control the pace and depth of penetration. It's a great way to add physical intensity to your bedroom play. 

4. The bridge 

The bridge is a position that requires strength and flexibility, especially from the giving partner. It involves the receiving partner getting in a bridge position, like in yoga while the giving partner gets between their legs and enters them. This can be a visually stimulating position and offers a unique angle for penetration.  

5. The ballet dancer

This standing sex position, inspired by the grace and poise of ballet dancers, requires balance and coordination. The receiving partner stands on one leg, wrapping the other leg around the giving partner who helps supports them. This position allows for deep penetration, intimacy, and a sense of adventure.  

6. The superhero 

This position, sometimes known as the Superman, is a challenging rear-entry position. It requires some coordination and balance to get into, but once there, it’s worth it. The giving partner stands behind the receiving partner, lifts them, and enters them while the receiving partner wraps their legs around their partners waist. It looks as if the receiving partner is flying while being penetrated.  

This position allows for deep penetration and gives the giving partner control over the rhythm and intensity. It’s a visually stimulating position that can add a new dimension to your bedroom play. 

The bottom line  

Remember, the key to enjoying these challenging positions is communication and consent. Always discuss new positions with your partner beforehand and ensure you are comfortable and willing to try them out. And remember, a little bit of practice (and a lot of fun) can go a long way in perfecting these positions. 

 Pushing the boundaries of your sexual experiences can lead to a deeper connection with your partner, increased pleasure, and a whole lot of fun. So, why not challenge yourself and spice up your bedroom play with these exciting positions? Happy exploring! 


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