There are many different ways for men to reach orgasm, however - not every orgasm is created equal. Some are mediocre, and some are mind-blowingly orgasmic! If you’re looking for techniques that will enhance the male orgasm, we have just the tips to take you to the next level. Whether you’re experimenting with a partner or flying solo, you’re bound to have an intense experience.
1. Get close, then back away from the orgasm
While at first glance you might be thinking ‘why would I prolong my orgasm? That’s the goal!’. But, delaying your orgasm, also known as edging, can seriously intensify your climax. This is because of the buildup of anticipation and sensation. You know the signs that you're getting close to orgasm. You can feel that pressure building. If you're watching your partner, you can probably note some of the signs that he's getting close: he's breathing harder, his muscles tensing. His eyes might close. He might become more focused or start moving faster.
However, if you want a more intense orgasm, try instead to wait until the start of your or your partner's climax, then back off for a minute. When you resume, you'll need a little time to get close to orgasm again, but each time you prolong it, you’ll notice it adds to the intensity of the final orgasm (when you get there).
2. Stimulate the prostate
Chances are, you're familiar with most male erogenous zones, including the penis and the testicles. What you may be missing, however, is the prostate. Some men enjoy having their prostate stimulated through anal penetration. Others, however, prefer you to stimulate this area externally through the perineum. Prostate play has many health and pleasure benefits, including a more intense orgasm either through blended stimulation or prostate orgasm.
Massaging the perineum prior to or during sex by applying pressure with the pads of your fingers can intensify male pleasure and enhance his orgasm.
To find it, start with the strip between the anus and the testicles. Stroke that skin gently. About halfway between the anus and scrotum, you'll find a softer, fleshier area. Press into this area. If you're the one being stimulated, you may feel a sensation like you need to pee at first. This is the right spot! Continue stimulating this area. It contains multiple nerve endings that can be extremely pleasurable when touched or caressed. Note that the more aroused you are, the easier this area is to find—and the more you'll enjoy it! Many men find that they can orgasm from prostate stimulation alone.
If you want a great, easy way to get the benefits of perineum stimulation during sex, try a vibrator like Tenuto 2. This vibrator has a powerful motor that sends sensational vibrations directly to the perineum.
Now, if you’re ready to be more adventurous, prostate orgasms have been described as being next level in terms of the pleasure they bring. And there’s no better vibrator to start with than the ultra-slim, bendable prostate vibrator Molto. Designed to improve prostate health with pleasure, this doctor-designed vibrator sends powerful targeted vibrations that arouse your prostate like never before.
3. Do your Kegels
You may be familiar with Kegel exercises as something that women use to strengthen vaginal muscles and enhance their orgasms.
Turns out, Kegel exercises for men can also amplify orgasm!
Practice tightening the muscles of your pelvic floor and hold that for a full 5 seconds or so, then release. You may notice that your penis moves in response. It might take some time to build up those muscles, especially if you’ve never done this before, but you'll find that it substantially enhances your sexual pleasure.
One added bonus of male Kegels is that when you practice this method, you can train yourself to have multiple orgasms. Male Kegels allows you to distinguish between the feeling of orgasm from ejaculation, which can help you control ejaculation or even experience orgasm without ejaculation.
4. Use male vibrators
Women aren’t the only ones who can have fun with vibrators. Male vibrators like Tenuto 2 can give you stronger erections, perineum stimulation, and intensify your orgasm at the same time! Talk about a terrific trifecta! One of the reasons vibrators are so popular is because they increase blood flow to the genitals, which enhances overall sensation and, ultimately, orgasm.
If you are looking to experiment with anal stimulation, the prostate vibrator Molto is the ticket to intense orgasms in a way you’ve likely never experienced. Don’t fret about size! Molto is ultra-slim - the width of one finger - making it a beginner-friendly, easy vibrator to experience breathtaking prostate orgasms. If you want to up the ante, Crescendo 2 is the width of 2 fingers and has motors across the whole length of its body for no dead zones.
5. Slow down and enjoy yourself
A fast sexual encounter can bring you to orgasm quickly, but it may not deliver the same intensity that you get when you take your time and really enjoy every moment of pleasure that builds you towards your climax.
If you're using a vibrator, start with your settings low, then gently and gradually increase them as you move closer to orgasm. If you're masturbating or your partner is giving you a hand job, you may want to start with slow, gentle strokes, then gradually move into more intense stimulation. By slowing things down, you can really take the time to fully enjoy each sensation, which can lead to more pleasure when you eventually reach orgasm.
Encourage your partner to stroke, touch, and caress your penis throughout foreplay. Let yourself enjoy the different sensations as your partner explores your body. You may want to start with a sensual massage instead of jumping straight into genital stimulation. Let your arousal build steadily and enjoy it rather than pushing yourself to orgasm quickly. Do not rush forward to the next stage. There are distinct feelings as you approach orgasm, during orgasm, and as you relax after it's over. Let yourself focus on each one.
Enhancing the male orgasm is a sensory experience packed with exciting possibilities (and outcomes). Whether you're into prolonging your pleasure with edging or adding new sensations with an award-winning male vibrator, the right techniques and tools can seriously amp up your game. So, why settle for the usual when you can level up your pleasure? Give it a shot – your orgasm will never see it coming.
