Legato, the vulva vibrator, does something pretty incredible - it gives the vulva (and labia!) the attention they deserve but seldom receive. Honestly, it’s kind of a public service.
With any new kind of vibrator comes a familiar question: how exactly do I use this thing?
There’s the classic move: place it over your vulva, turn it on, let it turn you on. And that is magical - until it starts to feel like… well, routine.
Even an all-star like Legato, clinically proven to boost arousal and lubrication, can lose its luster if it’s stuck in a loop. So, if you love pleasure but your vibrator routine is starting to feel like using a toothbrush on your soul - this one is for you. Here are 9 surprising, slightly genius ways to fall back in lust with a vibrator you already love.
1. Use it over your panties
We know the usual goal is to take things off, but keeping your panties on while using Legato can layer pleasure in a whole new way. Using it over fabric disperses the vibrations, creating a sensation that feels completely different from direct contact. The material works like a diffuser, spreading vibrations across the entire vulva and pelvic bone for a softer build that lets arousal stretch out in the best way.
Let your lace do the work. Or your cotton. Or silk. Or mesh. Try different textures and materials. Each one shifts the quality of vibration - giving you something new to feel every time.
There are also fun variations on panty play. Explore pulling the fabric up between your labia - yes, the one time a camel toe is a good thing. This creates gentle, constant pressure that works beautifully with Legato’s vibrations, adding a low, delicious hum to pressure that builds tension in all the right places.
Start with multiple layers, like leggings over panties, and peel them off one by one as your arousal builds. Thank OMGYES for this tip on how to turn a personal striptease into something that gets more intense with every reveal.
And the best part about panty play is you can do it solo or involve a partner. Lean your back against your partner’s chest and have them pull your panties up, left, right, or in different directions while you use Legato on your vulva. Similarly, start with multiple layers and have your partner sensually strip them away, kissing you on different erogenous zones while Legato works your vulva.
2. Inch It Down, Don’t Drop & Go
It’s tempting to rush right to the good stuff and place Legato directly on your most sensitive erogenous zones, but that can actually backfire. Sometimes, too much too soon isn’t better - it’s overwhelming.
That’s because most women experience responsive desire, which isn’t only about responding to stimulation, but about letting desire and arousal build together. Starting too quickly might get your body going, but it doesn’t give your biggest sex organ - the brain - the stimulation it needs to be on board. The solution? Seduction.
Start higher up at the pubic bone with Legato. Let Legato awaken your clitoris indirectly through dispersed vibrations from the pubic bone. Slide it down slowly, grazing, teasing, lingering where it feels good. Then, as arousal mounts and you get that omg-I-really-want-it-can't-stand-it feeling, ease it into place over your vulva.
This isn’t just about positioning, it’s about building anticipation. Inching Legato into place creates progressive friction that helps desire and arousal rise in sync - and stay there.
3. Pair it with another vibrator
Want a blended experience that creates a blindingly, hot orgasm? Bring in another vibrator or sex toy to use with Legato. Double the stimulation. Because why not? The more the merrier.
Legato’s wide middle makes it the perfect team player. While Legato arouses the vulva and labia with dispersed vibrations, spotlight your clitoris with a second product.
This is your chance to mix sensations. Try pairing Legato with something that offers pinpoint pressure, like a bullet vibrator (Poco is a popular favorite). The contrast between Legato’s broad, all-encompassing stimulation and the sharp intensity of targeted pressure can push your orgasm into a kaleidoscope of pleasure - where you feel colors.
4. Flip the script & flip it
The best part of pleasure? You get to flip the script - literally. The standard way to use Legato is buttons up, smooth side down. But rules are just recommendations, and this one’s made for bending.
Flip it backwards and let the buttons add texture where it counts. Flip it upside down and use the thicker top to tease the entrance of the vagina and the perineum. Go where the sensation feels best. There’s no wrong way to explore - just new favorites waiting to be discovered at every turn.
5. Sandwich it between your thighs
Building on the theme of flipping things around, try turning Legato sideways and squeezing it between your thighs. Sure, it’s a total departure from how it was designed to be used, but that’s part of the fun. Pleasure is versatile, not rule-bound.
Instead of using Legato the traditional way to disperse vibration across the vulva, this move concentrates the sensation. You’re applying more focused vibration toward the middle of the vulva - and clitoris. Think of it like the Kivin method - except with vibrations instead of a tongue.
Lay on your side and sandwich Legato between your thighs for even more control. The harder you squeeze your thighs, the more pressure you apply, and the more concentrated the sensation becomes. This technique makes arousal hands-free - and totally amazing.
Have a partner that wants to play? Have them spoon you in this sideways position. Let them stroke your thighs, caress your breasts, and whisper all the right things while Legato does its thing, building towards something irresistibly sexy.
6. Rise it; Ride it
This one’s for the cowgirls who like the view from the top and the sensation from below. And no, we’re not expecting you to wreck your knees in some Cirque du Soleil straddle.
Grab a prop - something like a sex wedge or a firm pillow or two - to raise Legato to the right height so you can straddle it comfortably, without stressing your joints. Straddle the prop so your knees are on a stable surface and Legato is lifted, closer to your vulva. Then sit on it and ride.
Roll your hips in circles, tuck your tailbone to shift the pressure, and play with what feels good. It doesn’t take much. The weight from straddling Legato creates all the pressure you need, so even the smallest movements can feel incredible.
Swap the pillow for your partner who wears Legato as a cock and ball ring. Ride your partner slowly and try those same micro-movements with Legato sandwiched between your bodies. Spoiler alert: it feels just as good for him. If you find Legato’s not quite hitting the spot, try putting a pillow or sex wedge under your partner’s hips to elevate Legato.
This hands-free position is a great opportunity to use the MysteryVibe App or the MV Remote to cycle through vibration patterns and explore all 16 intensity levels to find which ones enhance an already amazing experience for both of you.
7. Sit on it - and different surfaces
This one’s beautifully simple - just sit on it. But here’s the twist: the surface you sit on changes everything.
Sit on Legato and adjust it into a position that feels best for you. Then, explore different movements that tweak the pressure and sensation. Lean forward, lean back, roll your hips, shift side to side. It’s low effort, high reward.
Now here’s where it gets interesting: the surface you’re sitting on will completely change the way Legato’s vibrations feel. A firm wooden chair creates sharper, more direct sensations. A plush couch or padded seat softens the buzz, making it more diffused. Try a few and see which one makes you go, oh, that’s the one. It’s the most satisfying version of musical chairs you’ll ever play.
8. Rim job, reimagined
Not your typical oral setup, and that’s exactly the point. Lie on your stomach with your hips propped up with a sex wedge or firm pillow. Place Legato underneath you, on your vulva, so that you’re lying on it. Have your partner come behind you and press Legato firmly against your vulva while giving you a rim job. That’s right - this one involves oral, but not where you might expect.
Unless you’re into anal play this area probably doesn’t get a lot of TLC, so the sensation might feel unfamiliar, but also freakishly good.
The skin around the anus and the perineum is delicate and packed with nerve endings, which makes it highly responsive and erotic to touch. Add in Legato’s edge-to-edge vulva stimulation, the pressure of your weight, and your partner’s hand amplifying it, and you’re layering sensation in a way that builds toward a blended orgasm unlike anything you’ve felt before.
It’s intimate, primal and a criminally underrated way to enhance oral sex.
9. Let your partner take (remote) control
Let your partner push your buttons. Now, if you're thinking they already do that surprisingly well, we mean remote control buttons. The fun kind of button-pushing (promise). With the smart app or the MV Remote, your partner gets to decide the vibe - literally.
And there’s something undeniably hot about giving up control, especially when it’s the kind of pleasure that’s impossible to predict.
Here’s a visual: you’re tied up, arms overhead, while Legato is tucked between your thighs. Your partner sets the perfect rhythm, and then suddenly a quick pulse quickens your pulse, and you feel an orgasm building faster than you anticipated. One more mystery vibe and you might be pushed over.
Try cowgirl. You ride. They control. Let them play with patterns to match the rhythm of your hips, adding texture to your grinding that makes everything feel more intense. More connected. More electric.
Remote play isn’t just about fancy tech. It’s about teasing tension, and bringing both of you into the moment in a way that’s playful and interactive. These are just a few examples of how to make your sex life buzzworthy with remote control.
Takeaway
Legato already does a lot. This vibrating ring helps women uncover pleasure that’s been hiding in plain sight - vulva pleasure. And during partnered sex, Legato is a couple’s favorite, boosting arousal and helping close the orgasm gap.
But everyone loves a remix.
You don’t need to reinvent your routine, just play with it. Flip it. Layer it. Ride it. Press into it.
Pick one idea that made you do a double take, grab your Legato, and try something new. Because sometimes the best kind of pleasure is the kind you never saw coming.
